Long Day!

I'm on my own all day long into the night tonight because R has a meeting to for his stupid fraternity that can't keep a chapter going at our university. They keep getting poor leaders and then they run it into the ground and have to shut down. He's so passionate about trying to get it restarted even after he's been burned over and over by people, in which he throws his hands up, and gives up. He keeps going back, like a little lost puppy dog. As you can see I don't understand it because they obviously aren't interested in turning the frat around and making something of it. It just seems like more of a headache than it's worth. Yet he donates money to the organization and puts in useless time, with no pay off whatsoever.

The thing that really ticks me off is that the meeting just came up on Monday and it's tonight. I schedule my tutor hours 1 week ahead of time and I tutor at 7pm which means that it's R's responsibility to put Little man to bed because I start at 7pm. Now I vary my start times so it's not always him having to put Little Man to bed. He informs me Monday that he is going to be late tonight. Well that's great because now I have to rush and try to get Little man in bed before I start tutoring and it makes for a VERY long day for me. I thought it was work related so I said fine I'll figure something out. He never told me that it didn't have to do with work. So later I find out that it has to do with this stupid frat and I'm getting a little ticked off. He didn't even ask me if I had anything going on.

So I ask him last night if in the future he can not attend last minute events if I'm tutoring. I have no problem working my tutoring schedule around events but once they are scheduled I can't change them. He didn't like that idea and started fighting about how he never does anything. I'm like hello, when do I get to do stuff? So now I'm pretty ticked at him and vice versa. So what happens today. They call to let him know his car is done and miraculously he's now skipping his meeting to go pick up his car. Oh and did I mention the meeting was going to be at a Big B.oy, who the hell wants to go to a meeting there. Nothing against the food but it's not the most opportune meeting place. So needless to say I'm cranky, tired, and ready for a nap. At least my day won't be quite as long.