What?

I hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving! It was a small occasion for us, just my uncle joined us for dinner. Of course R cooked enough for an army, like always :o) My stomach has been bothering me lately so I haven't really been in the mood for food. Dinner was good, but it just seemed like something was missing, maybe the family.

My husband is acting like a totally different person lately. I am observing and experiencing behaviors that I have never seen before. He's getting angry at stupid stuff and pretty much being downright nasty. He just told me to F*** off when I asked him what his deal was. His gums are bothering him and he never goes to the dentist so I just commented after he told me that his mouth won't stop bleeding that maybe it's gum disease. He immediately got angry and told me that he didn't ask for my opinion. I'm sorry I didn't know in a relationship between a husband and a wife that he needed to ask for my opinion. WTF??? I feel like shit and I don't know what to do. I've suggested counseling and he's totally not up for it. I know I'm not perfect but what the hell do I do that deserves to be disrespected by someone calling me names? I still feel like I try so hard to make him happy and to do little things to make him feel special, not to mention respect and love him with all my heart. These little episodes are getting more frequent and it's scaring me. I have no idea what to do. :o(